B~Love's RelationTIP Stop Making Excuses and Going Tit for Tat

India is the queen of the excuse game. I think she has a stash of critical phrases tucked away, ready to roll whenever I catch her in telling one of her white lies. I'm not perfect, I too have made excuses for things I know that I am lying about. I suggest that when you get caught, own up to it, and move on. We get tempted to want to over-explain and qualify, but que sera sera. Take your lumps, learn, and move on. Also, stop with the tit for tat already. Two wrongs don't make a right, but I know it sure does feel great. Once again, if you get caught doing something don't deflect your anger by saying, "I know I was wrong, but you did 'xyz' too." Use that same energy to fix the issue.